He is who he is.
I had a discussion this evening with a friend who believes that men need to be told what to do, they need to be treated like they don’t matter, not adored or admired, not doted on or loved but neglected and challenged.
Anyone who does not present a challenge, an indomitable spirit or bitchy demeanor is not going to get the guy.
Allowing a man to be himself and thinking that is what he wants, is to my friends way of thinking, exactly what you should never do…because that is not really what he wants.
Sometimes listening to friends I wonder at the people that they are in relationships with.
Anyway, the quote from “Parker” inspired lively debate…for another time when I am not feeling the world tilt.